Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief by David Kessler (English) Hardcover B

Description: Finding Meaning by David Kessler Many people look for "closure" after a loss. Kessler argues that its finding meaning beyond the stages of grief most of us are familiar with--denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance--that can transform grief into a more peaceful and hopeful experience. In Kesslers new work, he discovers a sixth stage: meaning.: meaning. FORMAT Hardcover LANGUAGE English CONDITION Brand New Publisher Description In this groundbreaking new work, David Kessler--an expert on grief and the coauthor with Elisabeth KÜbler-Ross of the iconic On Grief and Grieving--journeys beyond the classic five stages to discover a sixth stage: meaning. In 1969, Elisabeth KÜbler Ross first identified the stages of dying in her transformative book On Death and Dying. Decades later, she and David Kessler wrote the classic On Grief and Grieving, introducing the stages of grief with the same transformative pragmatism and compassion. Now, based on hard-earned personal experiences, as well as knowledge and wisdom earned through decades of work with the grieving, Kessler introduces a critical sixth stage. Many people look for "closure" after a loss. Kessler argues that its finding meaning beyond the stages of grief most of us are familiar with--denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance--that can transform grief into a more peaceful and hopeful experience. In this book, Kessler gives readers a roadmap to remembering those who have died with more love than pain; he shows us how to move forward in a way that honors our loved ones. Kesslers insight is both professional and intensely personal. His journey with grief began when, as a child, he witnessed a mass shooting at the same time his mother was dying. For most of his life, Kessler taught physicians, nurses, counselors, police, and first responders about end of life, trauma, and grief, as well as leading talks and retreats for those experiencing grief. Despite his knowledge, his life was upended by the sudden death of his twenty-one-year-old son. How does the grief expert handle such a tragic loss? He knew he had to find a way through this unexpected, devastating loss, a way that would honor his son. That, ultimately, was the sixth state of grief--meaning. In Finding Meaning, Kessler shares the insights, collective wisdom, and powerful tools that will help those experiencing loss. Finding Meaning is a necessary addition to grief literature and a vital guide to healing from tremendous loss. This is an inspiring, deeply intelligent must-read for anyone looking to journey away from suffering, through loss, and towards meaning. Author Biography David Kessler is the worlds foremost expert on grief. His experience with thousands of people on the edge of life and death has taught him the secrets to living a fulfilled life, even after lifes tragedies. He coauthored On Grief and Grieving and Life Lessons with Elizabeth KÜbler-Ross and You Can Heal Your Heart: Finding Peace After a Breakup, Divorce or Death with Louise Hay. He is the author of Finding Meaning; Visions, Trips, and Crowded Rooms; and The Needs of the Dying, praised by Mother Teresa. Davids work has been featured in the New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Business Week, and Life Magazine, and on CNN, Fox, NBC, PBS, and CBS. David has served on the Red Cross Aviation Disaster Team and has volunteered for decades as a Los Angeles Police Department Specialist Reserve Officer. He lectures for physicians, nurses, counselors, police, and first responders and leads talks and retreats for those dealing with grief. Review "Helping others is one way to heal; thats a message readers will find in Kesslers new book, [which] contains many messages about the nature of grief and how society supports, or doesnt, the basic human need to mourn...Finding Meaning is Kesslers poignant response to societys insensitivity, [a] how-to in the very best sense...With an accessibility reminiscent of author and neurologist Oliver Sacks, Kessler writes of how our brains are wired for grief -- how survivors often become trapped in guilt and relive their loved ones final moments without remembering happier times too." --Nick Owchar, Los Angeles Times "Some people find meaning through belief in an afterlife; for others it comes from recalling fond memories of the loved ones they lost...The pain of grief is a natural reaction to the loss of someone you love. But, as Mr. Kessler points out, suffering is what our mind does to us, and it can be mitigated by finding meaning in what weve lost." --Jane Brody, The New York Times "Kessler is the renowned author, with Elisabeth KÜbler-Ross, of 2005s seminal On Grief and Grieving: Finding Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss and a top expert on grief -- a painful subject that Kessler approaches with compassion and intelligence in his new guide to healing during this theoretically sixth and last stage of grieving: meaning." --Christina Ianzito, AARP.org"Excellent ... Anyone who has lost a loved one will find solace in Kesslers comforting words." --Publishers Weekly, starred "An excellent addition to grief literature that helps pave the way for steps toward healing." --Library Journal"Finding Meaning is a brilliant, caring, practical guide to help us understand grief and embrace this important "sixth stage" ... David Kessler gifts us with deep insights and life-affirming wisdom that can support our well-being." --Daniel J. Siegel, M.D., author of Aware, Mind, and Mindsight "David Kesslers work with us was the first moment of healing that we felt after our daughters death." --Jayson Greene, author of Once More We Saw Stars "David Kessler writes of a world that is rarely examined with such sensitivity. Now he has gone to an even deeper and more soulful place. He is a healer par excellence to others who are in pain." --Marianne Williamson, author of Return to Love "This beautiful, tender, wise book will help the many of us who struggle, for years or even decades, after losing someone we love. To take our pain and transmute it, and to find in our suffering a way of relieving the pain of others, can be a powerful form of healing. Whether our grief arises after a suicide, a difficult relationship, the death of a child or newborn, even the ambiguous losses that accompany mental illnesses and addiction -- David reassures us that we can find in our deep pain an opportunity to contribute to the wider human story. Grief may not end, but David reassures us that it can change shape and be a source of generosity, love and meaning. David Kessler shows us how. Soulful, warm, friendly, and clearly written, the fruit of much personal suffering and of Davids years of professional expertise helping others. I only wish Id had Davids book soon after my mothers death. I will give it to others." --Katy Butler, author of Knocking on Heavens Door and The Art of Dying Well "Grief is ultimately experienced by everyone. The sad truth is that loss leaves us not knowing what to do or to feel. David Kessler has provided us with a grief compass and a way to find meaning in loss. I will be going back and re-reading it for years to come." --Denise Jablonski-Kaye, PhD, LAPD Police Psychologist "David has eloquently articulated an essential component of living with grief: the ability to construct meaning out of tragedy. The book is filled with wisdom and heart, beckoning and inspiring readers to live their lives in harmony with their loved ones legacy." -- Fredda Wasserman, MA, MPH, LMFT, CT, Our House Grief Support Center Review Quote "We have a choice to rise or fall after tragedy. David Kessler knows this all too well, both as a trailblazing expert on grief and as a bereaved parent. If you want to find purpose and meaning in your life after loss, you cant miss this book." --Tony Robbins, author of Unshakeable Details ISBN1501192736 Author David Kessler Short Title FINDING MEANING Pages 272 Publisher Scribner Book Company Language English ISBN-10 1501192736 ISBN-13 9781501192739 Format Hardcover DEWEY 155.937 Year 2019 Publication Date 2019-11-05 Subtitle The Sixth Stage of Grief UK Release Date 2019-11-05 Imprint Scribner Book Company Audience General We've got this At The Nile, if you're looking for it, we've got it. With fast shipping, low prices, friendly service and well over a million items - you're bound to find what you want, at a price you'll love! TheNile_Item_ID:126731417;

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